
Ayers (Image: SHe Said)
In 2012, musician Jen Ayers’ husband, Graham, came out as transgender.
The two had been together since meeting at their 1988 college orientation, later performing in bands and starting a family together.
This life-changing event sparked many questions about what it meant for them as individuals, as a couple, and as parents. The only way Ayers could find answers was by making music and, eventually, writing the full-length musical SHe Said, which will have its world premiere at Capitol Hill’s Erickson Theatre from January 14 through February 1 as part of Intiman Theatre’s 2025-2026 season.
“When I am trying to figure something out, process something, or don’t understand something, my go-to in life is often to sit at the piano, make music, and write songs,” said Ayers. “The first seedling of a song that led to this musical today probably started the morning after Graham came to this discovery.”
SHe Said’s journey from Ayers’ piano bench at home to Intiman Theatre’s stage spans more than a decade, with private workshops at The Royal Room and Seattle Rep, a four-night run of public performances at Broadway Performance Hall, and numerous re-writes. Ayers also released a double album of SHe Said songs in 2022.
Billed as an ageless, transformational love story akin to Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Ayers’ musical explores the impact of gender identity on a family and a couple who transition together, changing the way one thinks about what it means to love.
This world-premiere iteration at Intiman Theatre features an immersive stage that resembles a nightclub lounge, complete with cabaret-style tables offering cocktail service to audience members and traditional theater seating. Ayers, who sings and plays piano, is backed by guitarists R. L. Heyer and Kathy Moore, bassist Rebecca Young, keyboardist Melissa Montalto, and drummer Geoff Redding.
“I could not be more thrilled to do this run with Intiman,” said Ayers. “They are just really the right fit for this piece. Part of their ethos is to bring work to the stage that’s brave. They support the LGBTQ community. They are fierce protectors of art and artists. I’m honored they want to bring this show to their stage.”
Ayers recently spoke to CHS about the long, personal journey that brought SHe Said to the stage.
Are there one or two specific things that you really want audiences to take away from SHe Said?
Our tagline for this show is, “Love wins.” People change. Circumstances change. We’re all out there weathering storms in our lives, and it’s love that ultimately carries us through those times. Also, the importance of being your truest self, for humans to accept and embrace each other’s most authentic selves, which brings us back full circle to love. It’s a love story. What we talk about in this show are universal themes. You don’t have to have a trans partner to experience what it’s like to love someone and for them to change, or for you to realize you’re changing. These are things we all experience as humans. Continue reading →